The Stolls

The Stolls

Thursday, 3 September 2009

School

Well, school has started. We got off to a good start on Tuesday and Fiona promptly proceeded to get a tummy bug and missed most of what we did on Wed. Today was normal again. It's nice to be in our new classroom and we now have Sydney with us. You can read a bit about her on the girls' blog.

Our school has a name: Kingfisher Elementary. Here the girls are with their teacher in front of our new sign.

Sydney says good-bye to her bushy Papa. (By the way, I have a quote from Minnie Pearl. "Kissing a fella with a beard is like a picnic. You don't mind going through a little brush to get there.")

Wednesday, 19 August 2009

Theology according to Sydney


Today while driving in town, a lady, with a large load on her head, decided to cross the road right in front of us and Roger had to slam on the brakes in order to keep from hitting her. While recovering from the shock of nearly knocking down a lady who hadn't made a very wise decision, he said, "What kind of brain did God give you?" (referring to the woman, of course). Sydney in one of her moments of saying the first thing that came to her mind, said, "Maybe she worships a different God." Then later... "She almost made us run over her, maybe she's not a Christian, maybe she's a real sinner."

Tuesday, 4 August 2009

You know you're going on holiday in Africa when...

1. You drive down the road, dodging enormous potholes, and see a chameleon crossing; then you have to turn around and pick him up, amazed that he actually made it across.

2. It takes you 2 days to drive to your vacation spot, approximately 470 miles/750km away. (Mainly because the roads are so bad that it's physically exhausting to travel more than 6 hrs at a time.)

3. Each village along the "highway" has put up their own obstructions to slow traffic down as it passes thru (ie huge tree trunks or large branches across ancient barrels).

4. At every town you pass thru some kid shouts, "Yovo-yovo," (a local term for white people) or its equivalent, as if they had never seen one in their lives.

5. Countless trucks, which are terribly overloaded, have broken down in the road and, if you're lucky, are marked by branches in the road some hundred feet or so before as a warning. And, all occupants have set up camp under the truck knowing it'll likely be a while before they set off again.

6. Your kids think "swimming" in the run-off ditch of a small dam, in the "middle-of-nowhere-Benin", is the best thing they've done. (Has a lot to do with the fact that they were surrounded by a bunch of other kids, which is rare for them here.)

7. Finding that there is almost as much water rushing OVER the only bridge connecting the north of the country to the south as there is rushing UNDER it. But finding that same bridge still intact on the way home a week later. Whew!

8. Noticing that there is no real connection to the large red line on your map indicating a highway and the road you're traveling.

9. Stopping to eat your picnic lunch in a place you were sure was "secluded", only to find a dozen kids watching your every move, within 3 minutes of getting out of the car.

10. Being too cheap to go to a hotel (or perhaps there isn't one) so you stay in other peoples' houses--even tho they aren't there (right?) =)

And finally...

11. You see some amazingly beautiful scenery and wonder that God has allowed you to live in such a place.

Just a few thoughts from our great holiday visiting friends in Benin.

Thursday, 23 July 2009

sickness

Something that's inevitable, but dreaded is sickness. In Africa, whenever a fever is involved in a sickness, malaria is always suspected. Last weekend, Elena came down with fever and severe headache. These were the exact symptoms she had last time when her blood was tested for malaria. Since it was late and getting a test was not going to be easy, we decided to go and treat her as if it were malaria. She began to get better and by Sunday, was doing well. However, by Monday evening she had her headache again and by Tuesday evening and Wednesday morning (early) she was running fever again. She and I spent the entire morning waiting to see the Dr. yesterday. She was really miserable. He looked her over, cleaned some really gross stuff out of her ears (she can finally hear really well!) and said her throat was slightly infected. They also did a blood test to check for malaria. (By the way, the poor thing had to have her thumb pricked 4 times because the guy couldn't find blood!) She is now on antibiotics for her throat and another malaria med for that. These malaria meds really work fast. She slept well last night and, apart from a slight headache today, feels much better.

Please pray for us to remain healthy especially as right now is the malaria season with lots of standing water for mosquitoes to breed in. Thanks for all of you who knew about Elena yesterday and prayed for her. I just didn't get the chance to write to everyone asking for prayer. Praise God, she is now on the mend!!

Another thing is that we are going for holiday to Benin, leaving tomorrow. We'll stop in Kara, quite a way north of here, to visit friends and then on to Benin to speak German for a week. We're all excited to get away! Please pray for safety on these roads and a good time with friends. Thanks.

Sunday, 19 July 2009

The Beach


Even though we live on the coast, we don't often visit the beach. The public one is not exactly the place for people like us who stand out in every crowd and the "safe" ones are a good drive away. Besides, they seem to think they can make all their profits on those of us wanting to spend an afternoon in the safety of their sand. However, we decided to go today to a "new" (as in, new to us) beach hotel. It is literally right on the edge of the great port of Lomé. There are no natural reefs (the Atlantic is too cold, I understand) and therefore, nothing to keep one from being carried out to sea by the strong tides so swimming is out of the question, but that doesn't stop the sand castle builders and shell seekers among us. Today was one of those days. You can see the giant castle Roger and the girls and a couple of friends made.

Building wasn't the only thing we did today at the beach. Being next to the harbor, we got to watch a big container ship drop anchor and turn 180 degrees then "back into" it's place at the dock. It was really cool (no photos of that). Something else that was interesting, was the contrast in the "modern and huge" and the "ancient and tiny" coming into the harbor. Notice the tiny local boat coming in near the huge container ship sitting at dock. (It's not as striking a contrast in the photo as it was in real life, unfortunately.)

It was nice to sit out there with the lovely wind blowing and all. I, Kathy, am not really into the beach, especially big waves and cold water, but today was really nice.

Monday, 13 July 2009

Our girls

Just a quick note. Our girls now have their own blog. You can read their thoughts by clicking here.

Sunday, 12 July 2009

stepping back - seeing the bigger picture

Last night we said goodbye to Allain Normand, a visitor from Switzerland. He was here to get to know our school, mediafrique, and visit some media projects in Togo. For 10 days I had the pleasure of picking the brains of this seasoned media practitioner.

It was in fact very refreshing to look at Christian media in West Africa through somebody else’s eyes. I believe he saw and heard things that I no longer notice. It made me think:
  • Is media training all that mediafrique can offer?
  • Why are we not offering assistance in finding solutions to local problems?
  • Why can’t we help radio stations with technical matters?
  • Why are we not encouraging others to do “what can’t be done”?
  • Why are we not more innovative ourselves?

I came to Togo to make radio work for the church in francophone Africa, so that the gospel might be communicated more effectively. But most of the time I find myself stuck in details. I am pre-occupied with the running of the media school, worrying about balance sheets, timetables and deadlines. Well, somebody’s got to do that…I know. However, it keeps me from seeing the bigger picture and pursuing all my ministry goals. But that's not how I want it be. Therefore, Allain, keep asking questions, even if I don't have any answers.